Have you ever had one of those moments that really sticks with you for life? About 11 years ago, I found myself in such a situation. At the time, I was part of a student organisation and had told my teachers that I would need to skip a meeting because of football practice. The reaction I got from one of the teachers was dismissive, to say the least, “That’s not a valid reason. It’s not like you’ll become a football player one day.”
What really got to me was how differently they treated me compared to a male peer who also skipped these meetings for football. His absences were never questioned, seemingly accepting that his football dreams were legitimate, and that he could “probably make it” as a footballer. But a girl with the same dream? That seemed unlikely in their eyes. This incident stuck with me and ignited a fire within me to pursue my dream.
Football has been a significant part of my life, offering comfort, support, and a sense of community. It’s far more than just a game for many of us, who grew up playing with brothers, fathers, or friends. While boys could join academies and chase their dreams, we girls had to carve out our own paths to improve and compete.
We didn’t just settle; we fought to be part of a team, to compete, to represent our countries, and to pursue our dreams as footballers. This meant battling stereotypes and seeking out opportunities to play in a recognized and structured environment.
To this day, most girls still have to fight these battles. Proper leagues are scarce, and clubs are hesitant to invest in women’s football. Despite these challenges, the journey has been worth every effort. Our persistence and ambition reflect in every match.
We’re not just playing; we’re fighting for every ball, every goal, and every victory. Playing alongside dedicated teammates, I’ve seen a fiery determination that I deeply relate to. Thankfully, the women’s game is gaining recognition worldwide, and I am proud that some of us have contributed to paving the way for future generations.
Last year, while creating content for a football academy, I asked young girls about their football idols. While many named male superstars like Ronaldo and Messi, one girl mentioned Sam Kerr. Hearing a female footballer named as an idol for the first time filled me with immense joy and a sense of achievement. It’s a sign that the next generation of girls sees themselves represented in football.
Though the journey is far from over, it’s important to celebrate the women who’ve broken down barriers and fought to play this beautiful game. We’ve laid the groundwork for future generations.
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Photography MARY ARTAMONOVA
